A guy goes in to a bar and sees a man sitting with a banana in his ear. After some hesitation he goes up to the other man and says “Excuse me, do you know you’ve got a banana in your ear”. The man says “What’s that?”.
This time he speaks louder, “Do you know you’ve got a banana in your ear?” The man says “I can’t hear you, you’ll have to speak louder, I’ve got a banana in my ear”.
Do not try and force what you think is help on others. Some are perfectly aware of their situation, some are perfectly content with their situation, others do not understand why they need help and you will not persuade them. Move on